Selena Gomez recently expressed her pride in how her tumultuous relationship with Justin Bieber has contributed to her personal growth and maturity. Just a day later, she made an appearance on Jimmy Kimmel Live, stunning in an emerald off-the-shoulder dress paired with black heels. The gown featured a thigh-slit and a sweetheart neckline, accentuating her figure beautifully. She completed her look with gold hoop earrings and styled her hair in a low ponytail, opting for rosy blush and pink lipstick.

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In a podcast with The Hollywood Reporter, Selena reflected on her past relationship with Justin, stating that focusing on herself allowed her to stand up for her needs and develop a character that does not tolerate disrespect. She acknowledged that their final split in 2018 was challenging, especially as Justin moved on with Hailey Bieber shortly after.

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Selena admitted that the breakup left her feeling unsettled, and questioning her career and future. Compounding her emotional struggles was her lupus diagnosis, which necessitated a kidney transplant in 2017. However, she has come to view the hardships as essential for her growth. “It was necessary for me to walk through those things,” she said, noting that while she doesn’t have life entirely figured out, she learned a great deal about herself during that time.

Now, Selena is cautious about entering new relationships. She emphasized her newfound resilience, stating, “My toleration of any sort of discomfort, usually disrespect, or whatever, even just unnecessary stuff — it’s not taking over me anymore.” This period of introspection and healing has empowered her, allowing her to embrace her identity and personal journey with confidence.